The following are just some of the replies I got from friends regarding Joe's (Dad's) news of pancreatic cancer. This amazing response reminds us all of the love and support that is out there lifting us up...Aw, man! I'm so sorry! I will keep you and your family in our prayers. If there is anything [D.] or I could do for you, just let us know, we are here for ya. Hang in there! [M.]
Thank you for sharing this with me. I will certainly be lifting your Dad and your entire family up in prayer. Sounds like you have an awesome Dad. Go State! Take care, [A.]
Awh crap! I'm sorry to hear that, Ben. I hate cancer. It's the worse thing ever. I know so many people that have had to fight it ... I know it's not going to be an easy road for your dad or you. If I can help with anything, just ask (even if it is just watching your dog, that's cool with me). [C.]
[R.] and I were so sorry to hear about your dad. You can count on us for tons of prayer. God is mighty to save. We'll be praying that His best will be done in and around this entire situation. While sad to hear, your email was very heart-warming and even hilarious at times. As you know, I think all of us that lived with you in college and got to know Joe a little have always loved him. He's such a great guy! And it's awesome that he has you guys supporting him in this. Thanks so much for letting us know. And if there's ever anything you guys need, then please don't hesitate to let us know as well. I hope you have a great day! [B.]
I am really sorry to hear about your dad. If there is anything you or your family needs let me know. We will for sure be praying for you guys. If you want to ever get together for dinner or drinks let me know. [C.]
This is devastating news. I am truly sorry to hear about it. Please know how much love and respect my family and I have for you and yours. In times like these, it can be helpful to look toward others who have walked this path before you. There is no greater example of strength and fight in the face of pancreatic cancer than the one and only Patrick Swayze. If the guy who starred in such beloved films as "Black Dog" and "Roadhouse" can fight his way through this disease, then I'm certain Joe can as well. Hell, a year into treatment, Mr. Swayze just wrapped filming on a movie. That's what I call living life full time. I'm sure your dad's doctors are doing everything they can for him. [S.] suggested you guys look into any clinical trials for any new pancreatic cancer drugs, if the doc hasn't already suggested it. A list of them can be found here: http://tinyurl.com/d9yatj. She's just a communications flack for a pharmaceutical company, but these treatments are, in her words, "often the most aggressive, promising treatments." Her mother made a full recovery from breast cancer a few years ago in part through a trial like this. Please let me know if there is anything else I can do. All the best, [N.]
That is a bummer, but your attitude is right on and there's no doubt Joe will be fine. Thank you for letting me know so I pass on some positive thinking and prayer from Chicago. Hang in there, friend- [N.]
I know you ask for no pity, but as any such news is going to cause sadness, that's the emotion I feel now writing this. With a roaring applause though, I commend the positive approach you all are taking. I hope to offer any encouragement I can. Let me know how I can support you guys any way...if you want me to bring over a pot roast with a few homebrews, I'm on it. If you want someone to blow a wod of cash at craps table, i'm that dude. If ya just need someone to call, you know my number. I remember from running into you guys (and your dad) once at a KSU football game and ofcourse seeing him again at your wedding. He has a great personality and the demeanor to definitely take charge and fight this head on. You and your fam are in my prayers....Rock on! [R.]
Sorry to hear that your father is sick and of course I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers!!!!! [A.]
I am sorry to hear this information. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family. Let me know if you need anything: drinks, dinner (we could use chopsticks) or just a chat. [K.]
I am sorry to hear about your dad. Hang in there, my family and I will be praying for you. [D.]
I am very sorry to hear about your father. Please know that [A.] and my thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you and your family. I know it's hard to believe, but you are not alone in this fight. All of your friends, [A.] and me included, are here to support you and your family in whatever capacity possible. Cancer has impacted [A.]'s and my family greatly; even as we "speak," both my dad and [A.]'s aunt are waging very courageous battles against the disease. We're here for you no matter what you need! Sincerely, [J. & A.]
I hope you had a good Easter, and that all is going well. My dad is doing pretty well, all things considered. Thanks for asking. He was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in 2004. He has been through several rounds of chemotherapy, radiation, and surgeries, and while it's been a bit of a rollercoaster ride, by the grace of God, treatment has been effective. You've got our thoughts and prayer, but please let us know if you need anything. [J.]
We are keeping your Dad in our prayers! We pray that the treatment does its job and that the side effects aren't too severe!! We hope you all have a blessed Easter! [N.]
D1 knows a guy who was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer around June, 2008. He had chemo for a while after he was diagnosed. Then, around November, he had surgery at John Hopkins. Apparently, as my dad was describing, he is doing well. This guy was living in China before he was diagnosed. After his surgery, around January of this year, he moved back to China with his wife. My dad said he would be happy to get more specific info on this guy's doctor, and get it to Joe. He was telling me about it tonight when he got home from work. Keep me posted. If you guys are gone and need any help with your house, pets, etc....I'm all over it. hugs and kisses. [R.]